The signature moment of Up is the “Married Life” sequence where Ellie’s and Carl’s lives together are presented, from their exchanging “I do” to their saying “goodbye.” Functionally the montage establishes the narrative foundation and insight into Carl’s character and motivation that the rest of the film is built on. If this sequence does not work, the film does not work nor connect with the audience.
Echoing the feel and poignancy of Charlie Chaplin’s The Kid and City Lights, “Married Life” is as effective a sequence as has ever been put on film. Cinematically the life stage vignettes connect seamlessly and the music signals, symbolizes, and connects Ellie’s and Carl’s emotions with those of the audience.
To add greater depth, “Married Life” shows the entire arc of a marriage beginning with the joy and excitement that comes with the possibilities of new beginnings as well as the joy that should be experienced in life’s routines and setbacks. The sequence also shares the sadness and grief experienced when life sojourns through the valleys of loss.
Obviously, there are limits to what can be depicted in 4:00 minutes, but “Married Life” shows the healthy way to journey through grief. First, it depicts the acceptance and grieving of loss. The sequence then shows continuing life’s journey and finding happiness and meaning in different, perhaps older purposes and goals in life.
As with any character-driven film, it is the connection between characters and between the characters and audience that determines the immediate success and any lasting impact of the film. “Married Life” cements the bond between Ellie and Carl and between them and the audience. As often happens in life, such bonds continue after death. With Ellie, it is her “spirit of adventure” that is felt by Carl and the audience throughout the rest of the film.
The “Married Life” sequence in Up enhances the film’s theme that “adventure is out there” and should be pursued, but it also reminds the viewer that the spirit of love is found within and should be nurtured and shared.
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